I found out recently that my boyfriend has been talking to other girls online on facebook, MSN and dating websites. I asked him to stop and he promised he would. A week later I found out that he was still talking to some of the girls and even sent one of them a half naked picture of himself. We haven't really spoken since, even though we live together, I love him so much but I've suffered in relationships before and I don't think I can handle the pain again. He claims not to know why he's been doing it but swears he won't do it again. The thought of him touching me makes me feel sick. What do I do?
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What it sounds like is that you are willing to remain in a relationship that you are not 100% happy with only because you don't want to start over. Well now, he might already know that about you and find it easier to start a new flame then it is to keep the firep place at home burning.
I think that you know that the right thing is for yourself. The problem is that we can't choose who we love but we can choose HOW we love. The way you want him to love you is up to you. I don't think anyone should be afraid to leave a relationship and you shouldn't rely on someone for your own happiness.
I don't think staying with him would work out the way you would like. You are already at the point where you don't really trust him and it will only get worse unless you change it. If that means flying solo...0