like what would you consider being really lazy? I've been told that I have a lot going on for me but that I'm just too lazy/unmotivated and because of that no girl will take me seriously
so where is the line drawn between being laid back and being lazy and un-datable? please answer
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I have when I was in high school and it was the worst. Being someone who is very motivated myself, and has high goals for my future that I'm working hard to achieve, I'd never again date a guy who fell too far below that. At this point, since I'm a junior in college and planning on grad school, I'd probably never date a guy who didn't go to college or at least the military. We'd just be too different in our motivations and goals.
To be honest, I probably wouldn't take a lazy/unmotivated guy seriously anymore. In high school it wasn't that big of a deal since we were all still kids and living with our parents. But the older I get, the more important it becomes to have that in a partner.0