I'm a 41 year old man going back to college, which means I'm surrounded by much younger women of 19+. I've pretty much declared not to even bother to try and get dates with these younger women because they didn't care for me at 21, no reason to think they would feel differently at 41. In addition, I've had these thoughts of how I would react if I had daughters that age messing with men my age. However, I'm getting a number of people saying that it really is OK to date, age is only a number and a number of Asian folks actually encourage me to make an attempt with some of their women. I'm really not trying to gain someone from these women but I cannot deny the fact that looking does fire my hormones up and being alone really sucks ass. I don't think I"m desperate, but I'd like to have what everyone already possesses. The bottom line is that I think they are all too young for me, well, maybe some of the mid-twenties women are OK, yet many others disagree and I should keep my options open.
Let's hear it folks
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If all you want is some physical action then you're looking in the right spot.
If you want a serious relationship that could be a life-long partnership then you're looking in the wrong spot. The reason I say this is even though some claim "age is only a number", the fact remains that you're at a different place in life than someone who is 21.0