I got in an argument with the guy I've been seeing the past 8 months.. We don't see each other as much as I would like..weve only hung out 4/5 times since we met started talking. We usually talk on the phone everyday & text. I don't mind moving slow but the fact that we don't see each other much bothers me. Well a few days ago he went out with the guys & hung out all night. I don't care if he hangs with the guys..but the fact that I haven't seen him in a month...struck a nerve & I kind of went off & told him I deserve better, etc! He got a little mad & said fine you do you & he's gonna do him & he don't care anymore. Well when I get my feelings hurt..i don't cry...i get really angry! So I responded with "F*** you then!" This was all in text. He didn't respond which means I really made him angry. It's been 3 days & neither of us has text each other. We are both prideful, stubborn people. I just wanted him to know I'm not about playing games or waiting around. But at the same time I have cooled off & feel I was out of hand. Should I contact him or just leave him be until he comes around?
How do I get my guy back?
What Guys Said 2
Just leave him period. If doesn't care enough to hang out with you after a month, and then decides a text message breakup is sufficient then he is not worth any time or trouble. You had a right to get angry, if you were "seeing" each other then 4/5 times in 8 months is ridiculous, completely ridiculous. Their is taking it slow and then their is taking it in reverse! I would say move on to somebody that will clearly treat you better and at least be willing to invest some time into the relationship.0
Definitely let him come around. Give it a little time to think about his decision as well. Its better to let him really think this out instead of make a quick rushed decisive decision based on how he feels and right now that may not be too good since the argument. Give it time he'll definitely should come around.0
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