So I went on a date with this girl I really like. Things out really good, we both like each other. At the end of the night we both kissed each other. Well the next day I text around middle of the day, she answered back but not in a very talkative way. I remember she said she would be busy doing something, but I'm sure it wasn't till late at night. I text her at 11pm, telling her I hope everything is great. She text back like 30minutes later. All she said was,"everything fine, just busy." At that moment I got this weird feeling, like something wasn't right. I decided not to text back any more and just leave her alone. She always text me when even if it's real late, like 1am 2am to tell me what's going on, all the sudden after that first date this. Today I was going to text or call, but I really don't know if I should, or not. I don't want to sound like I'm putting pressure, or desperate. What do you think ?
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I think you should call her becuase texting can become so confusing. You cannot read emotions through texts so you really won't know if she is busy or just doesn't want to talk to you. If you call, you will hear her reactions and based upon how thrilled she sounds at the fact you called, I say you should ask her out on a second date if she sounds happy. If she sounds distant or says she has been really busy and has no time to hang out, move on. Hope this helped!2