Ladies what are the top things you expect from a guy on the first date?
Most Helpful Girl
TALK No communication means he has nothing to say. He is either boring, shy, or is hiding something!
SHARE Don't talk about yourself the whole time, but don't let her do all the talking either. She needs to know your not selfish and not a stalker. Keep the conversation moving forward, stay on topic and don't jump around. If you come to a road block, try to keep the new topic in relation to the old topic. So you don't know about horses, but horse RACING... make sense?
BE PREPARED Dress nice, but casual. She might want to go to dinner and a movie, but what if she wants a walk on the beach? You don't want to go walking in sand in cramped dress shoes anymore than the owners of that expensive French place want you dining in flip flops.
BE OPEN MINDED Yes, its usually the man's place to pay, but some woman are uncomfortable by having a stranger buy dinner and you ARE a stranger for a while. Also keep in mind that some women are so independent that they make take offense to you offering to pay ;)1