Lately there has been a lot of things going on in my life with friends, family, etc. I feel as if I'm just another puppet in society and keeping the status quo. So because of that, I have decided to try things that I normally wouldn't do. For example, I went out tonight and just had a nice drink of tea at a local coffee shop patio. There were people walking by looking at me because I sat at a table by myself just staring into the full moon sky and stars. Then later I laid on a public bench and just relax there. I'm just out of personal curiosity, what would you think if you saw someone doing that? Would you avoid or approach this type of person?
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I actually think it's really cool I have to say. I really respect it in a person who doesn't feel the need to have people around them in order to validate themselves. Just because you are on your own doens't mean people don't like you or whatever - just means you like yourself and are comfortable enough in your own company. It's great. And most people out there are insecure in some way about this and think people like this are weird. I don't. It does border on loner at a point - but all in all I think it's just someone who either doesn't need people around them all the time to feel worthy or else just likes having the company of a select one or two special close people in their lives. This is enough afterall.1