I was planning on having a guy friend come visit me for a couple of days. When my boyfriend found out he was upset and said that I should've shared the idea with him before just deciding that my guy friend should come visit me. I asked him about his feelings, and he just said I guess you can "do whatever you want" and he was angry. I obviously know he doesn't want my guy friend to come visit, even though he knows him really well.
I'm confused.I can either tell my guy friend he can't come (and he'll be upset) or let him come (and then I'll upset my boyfriend). Help? What should I do? Is it reasonable for my boyfriend to be upset about this?
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As Nathan said, your boyfriend should stop being jealous if he has no reason not to trust you. He shouldn't care as long as this guy is just your friend and has never been more than just your friend. I wouldn't cancel on the friend. I would just explain to my boyfriend that nothing is going to happen and you can "do whatever you want" because- this guy is JUST YOUR FRIEND. He needs to get over himself.
You have done nothing wrong by wanting to hang out with your friend. You shouldnt have to ask your boyfriend for permission.0