One of my best friends had plastic surgery done. She is going out with a guy she really likes and has a wonderful relationship. Recently, she's been asking me if she should tell him about her plastic surgery. I don't know what advice to give her since I never had plastic surgery. Guys, what do you think. I don't want to ruin her relationship, but I also don't want to shrug her off with a "i don't know." This was the best idea I could think of. Guys, what do you think?
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If this is truly your friend, you should stay out of it. Why doesn't she solicit comments? Don't put yourself in a position to cause trouble.
Personally, I wouldn't really like someone who's had plastic surgery done, especially in a dating setting. I like a girl who has confidence in herself. That means I weed out all the girls who can't go 2 days without having a "boyfriend" AND girls who need to resort to plastic surgery to feel more "confident". To me, this is a big smoke screen that people use to put others on the defensive. My mother had liposuction and I still love her, but I'm not dating her and I don't care how "confident" she is. If I'm dating you, however, I want a girl who loves herself unconditionally. If you do that, you won't mind breasts that are a bit too small or whatever the issue is, and when I meet you, I will love you unconditionally, too, because your small breasts will be part of what I love about you.
That said, obviously there could be an exception made for girls who had a truly disfiguring incident and had surgery after, say, being burned in a fire, not just out of vanity.0