OK so I split with my girlfriend like a month ago and have been a real mess since. She was the first girl I loved and I'm still struggling to come to terms with the split.
She has recently started seeing someone new which has made me feel awful as I guess deep down I was hoping we'd get back together.
My question is how long should you wait before you start dating?
I know I'm not over her and find it hard to see girls in any way other than friends but I'm lonely and miss the companionship of a partner.
Should I just jump back into dating and see if something develops with a girl even if I'm not really into her or stay single if until the hurt feelings are gone?
I feel like if she is moving on then so should I.
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i feel to cry for you man lol I really do lol...but I'm a man...so I won't ¬_¬
the only way to get over a partner for me...is to have many short term partners after...thats just what works for me. Only a girl can heal the wound left by another girl, vice versa..
the more girls you expose yourself to the more you realize that you can be attracted to other girls, and how everyones different in their own way..but still have a shine about them...obviously you won't see that right now because your minds been poisoned by betrayal and your hearts bleeding love *to quote a song* lol
doesnt seem like it now, but trust me with time it gets better..by time I mean at least a year, us guys feel real love, unlike women!...dont force yourself to try and move on, it will happen and it will slowly get better, but things always gets worse before it can be allowed to get better.1