i have a boyfriend that I have been with for more than 2 years and just recently I went into a chat room and started to chat with this guy. I wasnt looking for someone to cyber with or anything. we started to chat and have so much in common. we talk for 5+ hours a day and its been like 3 weeks. we even have gotten to the point of talking about meeting up in the near future. I know I would be pissed off if my boyfriend was doing this to me but I just can't bring myself to shake this other guy and stop chatting with him. I don't know what to do or why I'm even doing this to my boyfriend. does this mean I'm ready to move on from my current boyfriend since I find others more interesting than him?
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Could be the novelty of it all. Think about it. After two years of the same old same old, you meet this guy online. He could be anyone and anything you want him to be so you build him up in your mind, kind of like a fantasy of some sort. It's just starting out so ofcourse he's giving you all this attention that maybe your boyfriend after all this time doesn't give you anymore because you're in a complete comfort zone now.
Don't do anything crazy right now. You HAVE to meet this other guy irl and hang out outside the net before deciding if you are really ready to give up on what you have with your bf. Maybe you are ready to move on, maybe this whole deal with new guy IS telling you that things aren't what they used to be. OR maybe although you love him, you're bored. You have to dig deeper.0