I initially hit on him, he took my number, called to set up a date this past friday. I was nervous and may have been a bit distant, in contrast to my flirtatiousness the first time we met. Eventually things loosened up, we talked about things we have in common, it was fun, we kissed a little and parted with a kiss... But that was six days ago. Texting him couldn't hurt, could it? What do you think is going on here?
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Maybe you started off all wrong. You say you initially hit on him, think back, do you honestly believe that if you hadn't hit on him he would have approached you? Was he staring/ smiling before you approached him? If he wasn't initially interested enough, it is possible he just went on that date with you out of curiousity but not because he was really excited about it.
Should you text him? I guess it doesn't hurt at this point. Although it is possible that he won't respond or if he does he might not ask you to go out on another date. If he does respond please don't ask him to take you out, let him do it. If he doesn't ask you out again, leave it be. If he does, then great! Just don't ask him why he didn't call those 6 days, don't even mention it. Sometimes guys resist being pressured into doing things, if he needs time then give it to him.0