so me and this guy were together for like 3months I realized I wasn't into him like I thought I was because the more I learned about him the more he turned me off which was 2 months ago...but anyways he's still obsessed with me and texts me nonstop and I RARELY respond to a text and I use the "I'm so busy" excuse when he tries to make plans and I even told him I just want to be friends and nothing else but he is still obsessive and gets jealous...how do I finally let him know that I'm not interested in him and that I don't want to hangout cause I feel like that would be leading him on? HELP.
How to finally get him to understand?
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wow. I'm in the exact same position you are. my ex boyfriend does not leave me alone ever! its been over a month that we've been broken up (because he cheated) and he still doesn't get the hint. I mean I totally ignore him and it kinda works but when he sees me he'll text me or come talk to me and that's hard. but I always just try to get him to like move on..like I figure if he sees me with another guy he'll realize that its time to find another girl for himself and it worked for awhile but he's just so stubborn that he will text or call me. so maybe you should try that and just avoid him..delete his number out of your phone. I mean it's obvious he can't be friends with you yet so maybe he just needs space to get over you and see you with other guys can always help..hopefully.0
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I had a couple exs that continued that stuff for over 6 months! Just keep ignoring them and be a bitch if you have to and it will eventually stop0
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