There seems to be this idea among some guys that if a girl wears anything remotely revealing should expect nasty comments. Now, yeah, a girl should (and I hope most do) know that wearing a low-cut top will get some looks. In my opinion, and I think a lot of other girls, these are fine. It's nasty comments and the loooong stares that are unwelcome. But it seems like a lot of guys (at least on this site) think these are things girls should expect if they wear anything remotely revealing. What's your opinion on this? Personally, I think girls should be aware of how the way they dress impacts others, but guys should also realize the difference between OK attention and over the top attention.
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The point isn't whether you deserve them or not. The point is that they're going to happen.
If you go out with your chest hams almost flopping out, yeah, guys are going to check you out. And yeah, guys are going to stare longer than you like. And yeah, it's quite likely some of them will make comments to you. If you choose to go out in revealing clothes, there will be both positive and negative consequences from it, whether you like it or not. You can't pick and choose all of the good parts without any of the bad- that's not how the world works.
Am I defending the guys who give lewd comments? Not at all. They don't really have any business doing that (though the point where the comments are inappropriate vary from person to person, so it's subjective). My point is, if you dress in a revealing fashion, you WILL get attention you don't want. If that's a problem, wear something conservative. It's your choice- take the safe route, or accept both the good and the bad.0