I've been out with a guy 5 times and we have a great time. We've been pretty intimate the last 2 times. The problem is that I don't hear from him in between dates, unless he's calling to set up the next date. So, I basically don't talk to him for ~ a week until the next date. What would you make of this? Should I assume that he's just not that into me? Or that he wants to have no strings attached/ get closer, etc.? I'm very frustrated and plan to bring this up the next time (if) I see him. What would you do/think?
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How old is the guy? and when you have gone out in the last 5 times, does he ask about how you been the whole week? does he show any interest at all? Now, I would understand maybe if for the first 2 dates, he didn't call; but the fact that youve gone out on 5 and you've been intimate 2 times and he doesn't call, it does give the appearance that he's more interested in a physical relationship;Ive done this type of behavior wiht my friend with benefits. However, I t could also be that he thinks that maybe you're busy and he doesn't want to bother you. I do know some guys don't like talking on the phone much so it could also well be that he is one of those guys that thinks he only calls during emergencies, not to socialize. And have you called him during the week yourself?0