or is it normal?
we've made plans before but something always comes up
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It is unfortunate that you have to wait that long, but it's not the worst thing I. The world. When I went out on the first date with my current girlfriend, we clicked immediately. Due to weekend plans on both of our parts, our "official" second date wasn't until 5 weeks after.
The key here is more about communication. If you stay in touch and communicate regularly, then it's a good sign that it's going in a positive direction. Another key factor is your first date. If you had an amazing first date in which you both enjoyed each other's company, the excitement for a second date will still be there.
All in all, while it's not ideal, it's not immediate doom either. I had to wait 5 weeks. 8 months later were about to move in together. With that, I don't think it's as big of a deal as you think it is, as long as there are legitimate excuses as to why it's going to be so long.0