Why does this guy I like take over a day to text me back? Does it mean he isn't really interested after all although his texts are very warm and conversational?
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No, I don't think it is because he is disinterested but rather, he's thinking of what to reply back. Wouldn't want to say something to make the conversation awkward, or seem TOO interested (in his mind he'll come off as clingy/desperate), or then again seem too little interested (conversation will lead nowhere/end quickly with nothing left to say). A guy that used to like me used to do that. He'd be online, but take all his time to reply back to my messages on Facebook. I knew he had seen it though because he'd update his status, post videos etc. but it seemed he was putting off replying to my message as the last and most unimportant thing on his list. Later on when I found out he liked me I asked him why and he said he was thinking over how to "say everything perfectly" and it took him time. lol0