my ex boyfriend and I dated for 3 years. we broke up a year ago and haven't really spoken or seen each other since. recently we started talking, and for some reason I just want to keep talking to him I want to see him. for the most part our relationship went pretty well, but I think we broke up because we needed to work on ourselves. should I give this another shot.. or am I just living in the happy to be in a relationship past?
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If you know what was the cause of the break-up in the first place, try and think about how likely it'll happen again. I don't mean to tell you to sound pessimistic, but before you get yourself into anything like that with the guy again, it'd be best to see if you both have worked (and fixed) the problems that caused it in the first place.
Example, guy's a flirt--break up due to excessive flirting with other girls. If he still flirts around, no go. If he fixed that, all green. Crappy example, but it's one from the top of my head.0