Meeting A Guy Online? And him calling me "hun"?

I met a guy online who lives in my city. We both want to meet each other this week. Is that a good idea. I was thinking it OK, but before I go I would tell a person close to me where I'm going.

He also calls me "hun" sometimes when he texts me, is this normal?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • What's wrong with the calling you hun?

    Hmm, what you describe is a bit dodgy to be honest. I'm sure you'll get a lot of women here that'll tell you don't do it, cause you'll get raped! While I think that's probably a bit extreme, and not everyone on the internet is evil, it is risky behaviour, especially as you're so young. I've heard some pretty sick stories of the things that have gone wrong when meeting another person on the online, so do bear them in mind. I think you should probably rely on your intuition a bit, has anything he said to you seem a bit odd or like it doesn't add up? Have you web cam-ed before hand to check he's not an old pervert? You will meet in a crowded place, right? Could you not bring a friend or two a long? If you're insistent on doing it, then do it in a safe way?

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What Guys Said 2

  • if he's older than you its probably normal the hun thing, I would recommend meeting in a crowded place and definitley don't follow him to a less crowded place until you know him better

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  • i think calling your girl hun comes from politeness, so you asking normal, yes it is.

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What Girls Said 2

  • maybe it's just his personality? but it is kind of weird because you don't really know him. just make sure you meet in a public place!

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  • There's no harm in meeting up. Just make sure you do it in a public place and you're good with letting someone know where you'll be. Also, make sure he doesn't follow you home or anything. Since you're under 18 I highly doubt he's a serial killer but you can never be too cautious.

    I would be wary of someone who you don't even really know already referring to you as "hun." He could be the player-type, although I don't know why he'd need internet dating, only interested in sex.

    Either way, you'll never know until you meet him, talk to him, and get a vibe from him.

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