we planned a date and he didn't show up! I text him " you better have a good excuse if your so dead! :( "
I had to attend classes right after the date, when I received his reply
" OMG! I'm so sorry I was so exhausted that I fell asleep! and all of a sudden 2 hours passed! "
I just replied " You were sleeping ?! :( "
and that's it!
I Know that he loves me so much
and I know that he knows that he screwed BIG TIME!
but I need to communicate..
How do you guys act when you feel guilty?
OR maybe you think that he doeskin even deserve a second chance!
please state your opinion about the whole thing!
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accidents happen and you need to forgive him.
at least that is how it is with me, and I'm learning to forgive my guy. I recently married an army guy and he's always late or cancelling dates on me because of the army crap he goes through.
Like today, he said he'd be home in 15 min and it was actually an hour because the army decides that he has to go to this board and has to get these professional pictures taken, but they told him last night and he didn't schedule an appointment with the photography place so they refuse to take his picture. After running around panicking, him and his guys decide to take regular pictures with a regular digital camera. They finally thought of this an hour later... sad to say this is not the first time this has happened (army related stuff that makes him late), and I learn to see this as something that I will have to learn to deal with. He could have called me, he could have told me to eat without him, he could have told me he already ate, he could have this and that... but the bottom line is... I still love him and I know accidents like that happens. If you are forgiving and trusting, that will show you love him and hopefully it won't happen again but if it does... life happens. Just move on. I don't think that what he did was that big of a deal that is worth breaking up over or anything. And yes, you're right. You should communicate to him. I do, I just tell my guy that I'm not mad at him but I am mad at the situation and I should learn to get over it. Then I do.0