Three months ago I opened my gf's facebook and browsed through her messages and I found a message for another guy and she called her "baby" I confronted her but she told me that she was just fooling around with him because the guys exgf calls him "baby" then recently my ex broke up with me and told me that she does not love me anymore. And I found out two days after that they have a picture together and the guy calls him "baby" however my ex tells me that they just started their relationship a day after our break up. Then she wants us to be friends though I said no she says my decision to stay away would hurt her. I am in doubt if she is in a rebound relationship or that they have been together while we still have a relationship. Will they last is the one thing that plays on my mind thank you for reading and all comments would be appreciated
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er, snooping through others' people accounts is a big no no - that's a big trust killer right now. even if she forgave you you now have this complex of either comparing yourself to other guys or wondering if she is cheating/still has feelings for an ex. was it worth it?
the relationship never had a chance if you couldn't trust her to the point you had to sneek into her personal accounts and she always had to watch her back because she couldn't trust you to trust her.
"baby" is a term of endearment, just like "hun", "honey", "dear", and so forth and so on. they can be platonic or romantic, and how you choose to see it is entirely different from her, which seems like that's where the discrepancy came from.
either way, it's over and done with and I think she needs to respect your decision if you don't want to be friends. some people can cope and some can't or don't want to. don't let her guilt you into something you don't want, despite your feelings. that is just selfish on her part.1