I have been going out with this guy Chris for about three weeks but I can't kiss him. Like french kiss him. I've made out with other guys so it isn't like I don't kiss guys, I do. Oh and Chris and I have had sex so I really don't understand why I can't kiss him. Can anyone help me?
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i been through that. the guy I was with did the same thing after a few weeks he said I love you to me and it did freak me out because I hadn't reached that stage. I didn't love yet I needed more time. he did try to kiss me but I couldn't I really liked him but I didn't love him. we went 2 years together and I never kissed him once nor did I love him even then. the reason for tell you this is you're maybe scared because he loves you and you're not sure if you're there yet. and this maybe weighing a lot on you shoulders. I never kissed this guy because kissing and saying I love you I hold those things very dear and I swore to myself than I would ony do those things with someone I truly loved. if you hold morals and values dear then your instincts will not allow you to do this because of your uncertainty. give it some time you may be feeling guilty because you don't feel the same way about him the way he feels about you.0