when ur a 16 year old grl how many years can you date a guy that's older/ or younger than you b4 it gets perverted or "weird"
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I think the law in my state says within 5 years difference is ok. I don't agree with that though. I'm borderline thinking it's ok for a 16 year old girl to date an 18 year old guy but I'm still a little apprehensive about that. I think at 19 a guy better have a damned good reason to be talking to a 16 year old girl. Like they grew up together and will probably get married some day, other than that, I think it's weird. And if the guy is 20 or 20+ then he can wait a few years for the girl to turn 18 if he likes her that much, otherwise he needs a swift kick in the arse. I think 16 year old girls should date 16 year old guys or at the most 17. I mean, you're in different social circles and different levels of emotional development than 18+ year old people, regardless of how attractive they may seem.
You know, those guys your own age who are single or dating younger girls are only doing it because the older guys are talking to girls your age. Give the guys your age a chance ;-)0