Is it bad that I am always the one asking?

[KoolKat]

Whenever I want to hang out with my guy friend, I ask him if and when he can. But he never asks me if I want to hang out with him. What do you think it means? I've just been really curious as to why I'm always the one making plans and he never bothers asking me if I want to hang or not.

[KarKingJack]

I've come across this problem. I think I'm just a sort of NPC though, as opposed to a main character, you know? So people don't realize they can hang out with me, hahaha. Or else they're busy or something. Depends how social they are, if they're the kinda person who gets used to people arranging stuff with them, they don't go out of their way to arrange something with someone else.

[KoolKat]

Well, I guess the fact that my guy friend knows I like him (or I should say I really liked him a few months ago), so he's probably thinking something about planning stuff with me will make me think somethings up? I don't know, lol. I wanted to hang out with him before Christmas but I'm not too sure it'll happen anymore. :/ *sighs* he's difficult, XD

[KarKingJack]

Yeah, that could be part of it. And awh... Well, maybe you'll still be able to? I dunno.

[KoolKat]

Honestly, I'm not even sure he'll want to. He works practically everyday besides maybe 2 days every week or 2. So the last time I tried planning something with him, he never got back to me on whether he could or not, just said "we can try but no promises" and then texted me later the night he had off work that he's been bored all day... So, lol yeah, idk.

[KarKingJack]

Damn... Maybe leave it for a while, don't try and arrange anything, and see what he does?

[KoolKat]

Believe me, I've been trying. It's been a month and half I think since I bothered trying to ask last. I even went a week and half with out calling/texting him to see if anything would happen and nothing did. He makes me want to strangle him once in a while, >_< (I wouldn't literally, but you get my point right?).

[KarKingJack]

Yeah, lol. Hm. He maybe doesn't want you around? Like, some people are asses like that, lol.

[KoolKat]

Lol, yeah some people are asses like that, I mean he calls himself an ass but I know for a fact he's not because he's actually not like most guys. He actually cares and is really nice (mostly to me anyway), XD

[KarKingJack]

Heh. Well, I hope things work out ^^

[Cupcakecutie0]

I never ask to hang out with girls cause I want them to ask me, its kinda a power thing for me. I don't wanna seem like the "weaker" one. Its dumb I know..

[KoolKat]

Lol, it is kinda dumb, but I see your point though.

[Anonymous]

i think he's not thhat interested in you if he's never the one doing the asking