I'm 18 years old, and I've never dated a guy. I've never even kissed a guy! I wouldn't say I'm gorgeous, but I'm at least average. My friends tell me I'm pretty and a lot of guys do too but their comments usually include something about my body as well.
I go through really long periods of sadness because at my school right now all the cliques are disappearing and almost everyone has a boyfriend/girlfriend now. I've been asked out by a few guys, but I either didn't know them well or had a reason not to like them, so I said no.
Why is it that no decent guy has ever paid any attention to me? I'm really smart (going to an Ivy League university next fall), and I'm fun to be around. I'm pretty shy around new people but I do have friends.
I just don't understand why the few guys I have liked don't like me back. Right now I like this guy whose friends say isn't good enough for me, and he won't talk to me at all. And people say he's really nice! I really don't get it :( Ideas?
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well its is not your "right" to be liked by the guys you like. and I think that turning guys down cause you don't know them that well is a bit ridiculous, and you probably really hurt him. the dude you like has no obligation to talk to you (first), and it is arrogant of you to think so. but if you talk to him and he just ignores you, then he's a d*** who you probably shouldn't like in the first place. so assuming that through all this you are still a nice person deep down, just be outgoing, approach guys, smile, say whatsup, ask them how they are doing...just the basic aspects of being a friendly person.0