im 17 dating a 19 year old. I've been going behind there back trying to see them and the other night they found out I wasn't where I actually was and I confessed to them that I was dating a older guy and they flipped out. I told them that he wants to meet them and make sure its okay for us to date, but they were just being jerks about it.
i need advice about talking to them about this because I don't know what to do or say. I'm so emtionally messed up, its crazy
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The age gap between you and your fella is very small, so I can't understand your parents apart from the fact that they are just trying to protect you, so have another chat with your parents and let them know that its only 2 years gap and that he is totaly responsible and not one of these jerks you hear of at the ages 19, and if they would just give him a chance ie invite him round to dinner one day, they could judge for themselves on what kind of character he had and wether he was what they felt someone who could look after you and guide you away from harm, all this is done very easily as long as your boyfriend shows respect when he is around your parents, but make sure he puts in a big effort, ie no coughing at the table or elbows on the table, and no licking his knife or plate after finishing his meal, you know all that lol, but eventually, your parents will come round and be cool, as long as you do this with respect to them in mind, good luck,x0