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There is no guy that likes to f*** a bag a bones. Why not try eating healthy and working out rather than starve yourself. Your metabolism is getting so f***ed up right now, your going to regret it later.
anorexic girls are gross. Seriously look at magazines like playboy, maxim, fhm. do you ever see anorexic girls in there? no. no guy likes skinny anorexic girls. I can't believe the way girls in america have been duped into thinking that's what guys find attractive. so put some meat on that ass and get that big badonka donk butt going on. that's what we like baby.
Guys do care but not in the way you'd think. For me, I'm just as unattracted to bone-thin girls as I am obese girls, I like a woman with curves, something to grab on to, especially thick in the but and thighs. The skinny obsession is just a cultural thing in our specific society.
Sorry but that's gross. It's NOT attractive for all your bones to stick out and be as skinny as a pole. If you want to be skinny then eat right (healthy food) and work out. If you only eat a piece of toast a week then honey, you won't live too much longer. People need food to survive, and just eating one piece of toast or apple a week doesn't cut it.
Anorexia is a mental disorder. Lack of proper nourishment will affect everything you do down to the taste of your pvssy. Yes we care. You will be unhealthy make a poor mother or lover and die young like Carol Carpenter. You must eat whether you want to. If nothing else, have a big bowl of oatmeal with milk and sugar once a day. If not that, s dinner plate of rice, with margarine and salt. You need to live. Right now, youth can sustain you. By 30, it won't.
Isn't it Karen Carpenter?And she also abused ipecac syrup.If you're going to give an example it should be correct
Actually she died in her sleep, They were saying combo of a heavy meal & low potassium which her already weakened heart could not sustain. Her heart may have been compromised by ipecac syrup. It dies damage the heart with prolonged use.
& Yea if you're going to site things do it properly,
Q is far too vague to be useful. If someone is very thin &healthy as apposed to just thinking of food all day, thousand rituals- rushing to puke or run if they eat too many peas- Not attractive. & Vitamin--
deficiencies can cause brain damage which makes you bring are psychotic, not attractive..
i'd imagine its not the weight , but things that may accompany it that may be a turn off. If you become too afraid to let you can become afraid to drink & wind up seriously injured mentally. Lose too much fat &damage the nerve lining leading to neuropathy. Lose your eye site. Lose your memory , become super paranoid or people phobic.. tons of things- or just be thin - never know what the future holds..
Being anorexic- low body weight- is one thing, having anorexia nervosa- morbid fear of fat - is quite another. Just keep healthy, eat enough to maintain a weight you are comfortable with. No one needs an apple once a week. You can be very thin at a lot more food than that. I understand being 'underweight'.
In general weights given as normal I find are heavy & most people have disgusting diets & could be healthy// ier ,below these weights. But you don't want to starve -youll basically get depressed,
They do care a lot... I was anorexic for a few years and when I met my boyfriend three years ago he didn't know about it. But I eat more because I really liked him and I didn't want him thinking I was weird or anything. This past summer I told him that I was anorexic after we have been going out for 2 and 1/2 years. He said "I know, that's why I always make sure when we go out or we're together, you eat" Since than I've cut back. The only reason why I don't eat now is because I'm just too lazy to go make food or I'm running late.
But to answer your questions, guys do care a lot & if you get lucky enough, you'll find a guy that will be sneaky enough make sure you eat even if you think he doesn't know you're anorexic.
Just be healthy, and that is what smart men like in their woman.
My ex was pampered too much at childhood, and she wouldn't each a healthy diet. She would fall sick often, and was too much of a trouble than any help. She was too weak, so (just an example) if we go on a trip or to the beach, I would have to carry all the stuff, because she didn't had strength to carry more than our dry cloths and snacks. Being anorexic, she had not much endurance in sex, I would stretch for 45 minutes, but she would get tired before she get an orgasm. And she said that she don't want to have children because she doesn't believe she could! That was a big turn off..
But that was not the reason we broke up. That plus she being no-longer trustworthy ruined our relationship!
That's unhealthy and shows that you don't respect your body. Why are you being so skinny, to impress others or yourself? From a technical standpoint, I don't care what girls weigh as long as they keep their bodyfat between 15 and 20%, then they are relatively healthy.
I know I care. My girlfriend started doing that a while back. I caught on very quickly that she wasn't eating and when she was eating, it wasn't much. Best thing for you would be to just eat. Own up to it that you're human and feed yourself properly.
There are terribly ugly effects that happen when a girls not eating much. She gets bags under her eyes, her hair gets thinner and gross. Ever notice how the fat girls have great hair?
The trick to staying skinny without excess effort is to drink tons of water. It boosts your metabolism, and makes almost anything you eat burn right off. Sure you have to pee all the time, but you can still eat mostly what you want and keep that nice small body.
What guys really like is a girl with some muscle. Today's world is all about abs, toned legs, toned butt, toned arms. Everything is muscle based. If you want to look good hit the gym. The anorexic model is way from the past and completely unattractive in our new age.
Yes. It's not healthy and if my girlfriend was anorexic I'd be very worried and I'd lose a lot of sleep worrying about her and worrying that she'll be OK and worrying that maybe it's my fault that she has issues with her image.
And also, skinny is SO NOT attractive. Slim and toned, yes, but if you're anorexic you're going to be skinny, not just slim.
Yes, guys care. Guys are attracted to physical traits that make a woman look healthy and fertile above all, which is why we are very attracted to physical beauty above all else. And being anorexic is even worst than being say 50 pounds overweight in that regard.
I'd rather have a girl who was mentally and emotionally stable but overweight than one who was thin and had mental issues like that. For the record, my preference leans toward girls who have full or athletic figures. I don't like delicate-looking physical features. I think it's a turnoff.
Well if you want it in black and white then I'm sorry to say yes, but you should realize being skinny shouldn't be your only way to get a guy to fall for you. You should want him to like you for who you are. Anorexia is a real disorder (learned in school) and you can only ultimately help yourself. Although I'm sure there are people in your life that would help you along the way.
ahhgreed
Dude what the sh*t. Eat something. Not only is that dramatically unhealthy, that's just nasty to look at. Really ribs protruding does not do it for me. I'd rather a girl have a little more meat than less.
I don't like when a girl LOOKS anorexic & is skinnier than she's SUPPOSED to be. Other than that, you're right it's your body & you need to be happy. If my Girlfriend was that way, I'd be concerned about her health & would like to find a way to make her happy without having to do it, but I would NEVER critisize, lecture or turn away from her because of it...
A girl should be healthy and have a little curve to her shape, not fat curves but a nice healthy-no-bones type curve...if she's looks like she's been locked in a dark cave for a month only eating stale bread and drinking dirty water then I don't want her.
OK, I've re-considered and have decided that I do care.
I genuinely would like to know why you are willfully anorexic.
I can't understand why someone who, being otherwise sane and rational, would choose to slowly starve herself to death.
Do you have body dysmorphic disorder? Are you seeking to punish someone else by punishing yourself? Is it driven by OCD or some other pathology?
I can't wrap my head around it. It runs counter to the basest of biological drives.
you already said you don't care so it doesn't matter:)
Its not heathy though sweet heart and it could really do a lot of damage it also slows down your metabalism. Guys like girls who are heathly. you should be eating 6 small meals aday and regluar exercise and drink lots of water put please don't over do it. please get help I'm sure you'll worry lots of people who care for you.
I'm pretty sure you mistook my answer. If my only two options are "yes" and "no", then my answer has no context. Without any qualification or commentary to frame that answer, you interpret it however you want.
The more complete answer would ask you to please work on the issues that cause your anorexia.
Every day you do it, you damage your health and make the people in your life who care about you
Sad and miserable. But then, that may be part of the plan, huh?
You said no,which gave me the answer.You don't care,so you kind of agree or are OK with a girl being anorexic
Stop worrying about men and go see your doctor, your very poorly anorexia causes all sorts of problems and doesn't look nice! I get its hard for us younger women as all ever see or read about is how thin celebs are and how amazing they look but that's not what real men want! You need to eat to stay alive! Sort your problems out with help from your family, friends or doctor before you even think about what a man wants!