I met this girl at school and I like her quite a bit. We talk a lot when we see each other, she seems to laugh at almost everything I say, even if it isn't that funny, she ask me questions about myself and we share a lot of similar interests. I asked her for her number and she gave it to me but: She never texts me first, I always have to initiate the conversation, but I have no problem with that. What bugs me is that when we text she seems like she is not really into the conversation, she always replies but I get this vibe like maybe she doesn't want to talk to me and answers out of politeness but when we see each other is like nothing happened and we just talk like normal and she always starts a conversation or tries to make small talk. Some people would say that I need to stop texting and just call her but I don't want to seem pushy, that's not me at all, I do like her but I would never want to reach that level of "annoyance". What's the verdict here? Should I just stop texting and forget about it? Or could she just not like texting?
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I agree with the girl below. Give her a call. Most girls I know loveeee when they get a call from a guy they like. I'm not a big txter and I even find myself giving one word answers sometimes. I try to correct myself but sometimes it's just better to call the person. Much easier in my opinion. She could be busy as well. There's tons of reasons as to why shy may seem distant.0
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