I've been talking with this guy for about two weeks or so now. We have A LOT in common; he's also sweet, cute, and "perfect" in my opinion. We've been on around 4 dates now, and he still hasn't kissed me yet. I'm fairly positive that he's at least somewhat interested; we've watched movies at his house twice so far, and both times we cuddled up together on the couch. He gives me hugs goodbye whenever I leave, but I'm still waiting for that kiss. Honestly (and I know this will get said), I'm too chicken to make that first move to kiss him. I've always been a shy girl, and although I'm not as bad as I once was, I'm still a little shy.
So my question is: why hasn't he kissed me yet? Do you think it is because he wants to take things slow? Or maybe he is shy like me? I've been trying to hint for him to kiss me, but I don't think he's getting my hints XD
Your opinions are much appreciated :]
And please don't leave mean comments.
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It's very probable that he is just as nervous and shy as you are. Or maybe he's one of those guys who need absolute clearance to go in for the kiss. You may THINK your hints are easy to decipher...but the fact is he is not getting it. So this is one time where my advice is to SAY IT or DO IT. Meaning,either you playfully ask him,"So when are you gonna kiss me"? Or Kiss him when his eyes are closed,when he would least expect it.OR initiate by nuzzeling him on the neck and then his face(when you guys are cuddling). Doing this,i think he will definitely get the hint. But one of you has got to step up.Im sure he is questioning things just like you are. My last guy was a southern gent,and he would not touch me unless he knew it was completely okay.So of course I had to kiss him first.He...was...thrilled! I didn't have to initiate so much afterward either because we had established that comfortability. So..say it,or do it. GOOD LUCK! FAITH*0