I have a date on Sunday. Met this guy online - we will be meeting for coffee or early afternoon drinks.
We have chatted once on the phone, the other times through email. This guy has made several references to me coming to his place the first time we meet (if I don't find him creepy).
Is it okay to ask on a first date what they are wanting? fb, fwb, ltr, etc.
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I actually don't think its a good idea to ask on the first date for LTR, unless through the communication so far you actually feel you know the other person quite well enough to go further. Saying it on the first date seems a little pushy to me. I'd say go with at least 2 to 3 dates when you know the other person a little better. Give yourselves a little chance to get to know each other better without too much intimacy too cloud your judgement and if both parties are interested to go forward talk about LTR. FB and FWB is if there's only sexual attraction you both don't think that you are compatible enough to make any sort of relationship, then yeah hell after first date whatever. If that's the case though you are in control and make it clear from the first date.0