I met this guy online. We emailed for about two weeks before we met. We went out to dinner on our first date. It went very well. (nothing inappropriate) On our second date we went to lunch and then Christmas shopping (again, nothing inappropriate, just a kiss on the cheek). For our third date I invited him over for dinner, which was two days before Christmas and his birthday. He showed up with a Christmas gift for me, which was something that he knew I collected. and a very nice Christmas card. Before he left for the evening he said he would cook dinner for me next. (again nothing physical between us, just a small kiss). He's been an absolute gentleman. It's been over a week now (Christmas break) and he hasn't initiated any contact with me. I did text him twice and he responded one time with each text, however, he has not asked me out again and has not reached out to me.
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I recently got the girl I have been dating a gift but this has been well over a month and beyond a 3rd date so I felt like it was appropriate as well as it was Christmas time and its the thoughtfulness that counts. I'm sure he put in the thought with you as got you something that you collected which is kinda the same scenario as what I did for the girl I am dating but as stated if he's not putting in the determination to want to be with you its understandable to cut your losses and move on. If you think I provided the best answer gimme a thumbs up :)0