So I've met this girl through a friend of mine at some sort of gathering, and I've lately just been able to reach her online.
Now I'm debating whether or not to send her a PM (private message) asking her if it's okay to give her a kiss next time I see her around.
Should I or shouldn't I?
Looks like that's over now.
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I'd say you shouldn't. First kisses usually come after first dates; that's when the girl expects it, and if the date goes very well, looks forward to it.
Also, asking for a kiss puts (especially so far in advance) puts way too much pressure on the girl. As soon as she sees you again, she'll be thinking, "here we go, he's gonna try to kiss me..." It'll make things awkward.
If you like her, put her in a situation (on a date) where you just KNOW she wants you to kiss her. Casually ask her if she'd like to meet up for coffee or a drink sometime, show her a good time, and if she's smiling and looking deep into your eyes, you won't even have to ask--just go for it. Best of luck.0