I know this is an age-old question. But I just want some opinions from the total set. I consider myself a nice guy, humorous, not too good looking (haha), but well-educated and read. I'm 28, and I have some personal setbacks, none caused by myself, but by circumstances out of my control.
I show respect for everyone, I try to be nondiscriminatory. But it seems like every time I meet someone and get to know them better, they turn out being crazy (sorry, but I must be blunt), or have issues that seem too great for me to deal with. I do try to help these people whenever possible.
I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. I'm just looking for advice on how to better myself and somewhere where I could possibly find a date. lol
Again, I have respect for everyone I meet, so that's not the issue. I'm just trying to figure things out. Any ladies see areas of improvement that could be worked on? I'm open to all suggestions and answers, no matter how course they may be. So fire away. lol
Also, thanks for your time reading and hopefully responding.
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The first problem I see that you have is you seem to lack confidence in your looks. You are a good looking guy. Just because you don't look like David Beckham doesn't mean you don't look good. I say this all the time but a man has to be confidant in all aspects of himself to be attractive. If you want to attract a woman who feels that she is as sexy and confidant as you think she is you have to project those qualities. Be independent not dependant. See my answer about what makes a woman fall in love with a man. These are all qualities I look for in a man. Don't ever talk down about yourself. Own your life and your situation and don't apologize for it.1