So I met this amazing guy 3 weeks ago at a friend's Christmas party. We totally hit it off and have been hanging out ever since. The first night we kissed. We went out for dinner and drinks the next week...he spent New Years Eve with me and has come over a couple other times just to hang out and watch movies. My problem is I hate the unknowing part of dating! When we are together everything is perfect...we have the same views on life, love, values etc. We both have pretty busy lives as I work full time and he is a current full time student. I guess I just get a little sad that he doesn't text or call more. I start to get insecure, and I hope it's for no reason. So, I guess my question is...am I being crazy and over analyzing the situation? We're not little kids...i'm 25 and he's 27.
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You seem to really like this guy and it seems he spends a lot of time on you. Here is a secret, if a guy spends a lot of time on you, he is interested in you. Yes, dating is a little bit scary because when we date we open up are hearts and minds to people that we don't know all that well at first, but we still do it in hopes that they will do the same. And about calling or txting, who says the guy need to initiate a conversation all the time? If you want to talk to someone just talk to them, you said it yourself, "We're not little kids."