i met him months ago - I heard through common friends he thought I was beautiful. months after the fact, just last week, we finally ended up going out and ...really hit it off. we've hung out 6 times in the past 9 days - we meet up, talk for hours, laugh, and spend the night (but no sex). the reason, in my mind, that we are seeing each other so much, is because I'm leaving the country for 9 weeks in a couple days.
so whats' wrong? well, we don't talk about anything of substance when it comes to US - am I expecting too much to have some acknowledgment of what's happening between us? I want to address it but I've been biting my tongue, waiting for him to say something ...and I'm worried he views this as a casual 'fling' before I leave. I don't expect any commitment but I'd like to leave the door open.
what should I do? talk to him? let it be and see if keeps in touch through email while I'm gone? is he into this or is this just a casual thing for him?
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Yes it is too soon for him to be discussing anything of substance. He may be hopeful that this is an opportunity for a casual fling though you have not had sex with him yet. So, you met a guy you really like but you are getting ready to head out for 9 weeks and that can be a real buzzkill for a blooming romance. I say you enjoy the dates, do not have sex, see if you two can keep in touch for the 9 weeks and leave the door open to start things up when you return.0