my situation is that I live in a very urban neighborhood the Bronx New York I lived in the bronx all my life, an I don't have any friends. I've never dated a female spoke to one on the phone hugged or kissed a female, but I'm heavily into video games, and when or if I try talking to a female I would start to sweat heavily or I would just walk away I'm a very handsome person and I'm into mixed martial arts. theirs no such things in the bronx ny as book clubs and those type of things that other states have. By the way I'm still a virgin and when I try to talk to a female 2 things happen they ither they get intereset in me and when some other person talks to them and they loose their interest in me and leave me for that other person what should I do
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I'm in a similar boat and I am 21. I play a lot of video games, I love technology, Astronomy, big big on music. Love to play guitar, getting into piano, etc etc. But a girl doesn't always want to hear about you, she wants to talk about herself. When holding a conversation, make sure that you include her life in it as well. Maybe state what your interests are, and ask what hers is as well. The idea of the conversation is that it mingles. Neither side talking too much about them self.
I know, I may not seem like the greatest candidate to give advice given my love life, but honestly me not being able to talk to girls, hold a conversation, have one interested in me, or anything like that has never been a problem for me. It's often other things that block my relationships. I often find myself actually a very "smooth" talker.0