We started talking on an online dating website. Within the first week of emailing he mentioned coming to visit...I'm worried he'll be expecting sex! On the positive side, maybe he likes me a lot and wants to meet me in person?
I feel if I flat out ask him he'll get offended that I'm assuming he's like that...how can I tell if he is or isn't?
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I think you're thinking way too into it. It sounds like he wants to meet up and meet you, not for sex. If he expects to have sex then there's a simple solution to that, say no. Its your body and you're never obligated to give it up to a guy no matter how nice he is or what sweet things he does. A guy is suppose to go out of his way for a girl he likes in order to pursue her.If you like him then meet him but don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Honestly I think its normal for him to want to meet up with you because he may feel like he can't start anything with you until you've both meet in person.0