So, I was told that by the third date that if you don't kiss the person, the relationship won't go anywhere (or there is no chemistry). Well, does that same rule apply to people who have never kissed, shy and have no dating experience, but they like the person? Because I"m all of these things and I worry about it. Any advice or suggestions? Or ways to fix it?
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There is the old saying "practice makes perfect." I am not saying that you should go out and start kissing everyone! I would however, say that you already have the motivation to kiss him. you like him! Everyone has gone through this stage! Including this guy. You might say that you want to kiss him, but are shy. Let him make the move to you! Tell him that you want that kiss. An easy way to work into this, is to start kissing him on the cheek, touching, rubbing. Give subtle gestures that could lead him to giving you a kiss. It will also help you open up to him. I still have to use these techniques to open up when I am "twitterpated!" I couldn't even look at the women I love for the first three dates, because I liked her so much, and still believe I am out of my damn league! Good Luck!1