It seems like I live in a world where there are no guys.
When I was 17, I was like, no big deal, it will happen someday...
But it didn't. Then I started closing myself off, I felt weird because I'd never been kissed by a guy, never been touched... never even held hands!
Then I felt like there was something wrong with me, and I had a lot of trouble with body issues, but I am mostly over that now, I'm relatively confident in myself, and I know its not because of how I look. But I just can't seem to signal to guys that I'm open, omg I'm SO open!
But I worry about it pretty much every day, I feel like a refugee from the 1800s! So, my question is...
How weird is it that I've still never been kissed?
Once I get a guy close enough to kiss, should I tell him he's the first?
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I have never been kissed or out on a date and I am about to be 19. Don't sweat it girl. You will find the right guy and be glad he was your first kiss not some awkward teen in muddle school;) I worry about it a lot too, but in the scheme of things it really isn't a big deal, there are some great guys out there who will understand. You just have to find them:) good luck, I'm in the same boat.2