Oh my dear... I think our bf's are related. Everything you said is what I have said to myself NUMEROUS times. Me and my boyfriend have been together 1.5 years. He HATES talking on the phone, he would rather text me. I too treat him like a king. If he is sick, I bring him medicine, make him tea, bring him the remote, put a blanket on him. I have a bad day and I barely get sympathy, infact... he will then tell me all about his day and he'll talk 20 min about his asshole boss. But like you no "how was your day"?. My work sent me on a day course at a local college. I texted him in the morning and said "i was in this course" he actually got a bit miffed cause why didn't I mention before? He was really confused about that... and I was like "well if you would have asked me how my day was or anything before now, I would have told you" but its mostly about his day, his loser roomate, his boss. But do I think he loves me.. yes. He at least tells me before bed, however I initiate it lol! But it still is frustrating, and like you I love my boyfriend to bits! But he is an Aries... and they do tend to be selfish... so I have read lol! I don't know what to tell you, I am telling you all this just to say some guys aren't talkers but they can still care about you. I recently read something, and it touched me, maybe you can relate to it too.
"I Believe... just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them too, doesn't mean they don't love you with all that they have". Take care
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If he loves you, he would always want to be a part of your life.he wanting to know where you are,who you talk to, what you are doing,buying you gifts.Love is a passion that can't be hidden. If he loves you he can't hide it even quiet men express their feelings. so please be wise, uses your tongue to count your teeth.
don't think to yourself saying if you talk to me more then... say it to him he needs to hear it, cos he needs to wake up...i thought he was shy but that's not shy, sounds more like depressed...sit him down and see how he feels about the relationship..however, its not too good for a guy to be too talkative but he has to ask how his girl is doing/feeling and give her some complements so she feels good about herself...where did you find this guy? did he actually bother to approach you? lol
It sounds to me like he is just not that into you. If you want to see if he does care or is interested in you then don't talk to him for a bit. Give him the cold shoulder for a few days or weeks and if he is interested in staying with you then he will call. If he doesn't then it may e time to move on. You wanting him to change will not change him. Give him a reason to want to change it.
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