All is OK now, but me and boyfriend had big fight in Oct. as he logged onto his fb on my iphone and I saw 3 messages from some girl with an unusual name. 2 subject lines where "hey hows it going" 3rd message said "don't text me anything sexy on my fb wall message me" then she says "add me as a friend" so I just had a feeling she was one of those chat line girls who I have heard tries to contact guys randomly hoping one chats back they are usually from a foreign country either trying to get stuff from stupid guys or even marriage to get into the country. We had a HUGE fight as he texted her "your gorgeous, I'd date you in a heartbeat" which hurt... however, next day I looked her up as his friend on fb and she had NO info on her profile however, there was another tab that said "Chat with Me" I clicked the tab and a big green box that said Zoosk appeared the dating site so I knew who she was . Boyfriend denied it said she was a friend from back home who was in a car accident and he felt sorry for her. I know it was all an ego thing I am sure of it, but why do it? So he can talk dirty to some stranger or whatever? I didn't feel cheated on, I saw it for what it was but seriously WTF? And he wouldn't admit she was some chat chick? Obviously embarrassed he was on one of those sites.
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What do you mean... "all is okay now."
For the love of God girl can you even hear what you are saying, while you are asking something just as ludicrous? Your "boyfriend" has already opened the door to cheating on you. Doesn't matter if it hasn't happened yet because no fight you may win, and nothing you can say will stop the fact that he is dipping his toes in the water, and tasting the samples of what he thinks will be greener grass.
Come on girl, show your strength and the fact that you will not allow yourself to be with someone who walks all over you. Or, you can ignore everything and eventually allow yourself to marry the same sort of cheating asshole.0