This guy really likes (liked) me but we live 10 away. We met when he was in my town for a few days and he made his feelings very clear. Just good quality time together. Nothing wild or out of control. Time has passed and now he's interested in somene else that lives in the same city as him but he says that he still wants us to be good friends, stay in touch and leave everything to chance. I haven't yet responded to this revelation and wasn't planning on it. Should I? And what's the best thing I can do or say to not come across as insecure and yet have him thinking of me in the back of his mind? Or what NOT to do or say?
Should I respond?
What Guys Said 1
You didn't say if you liked him ?
I think that's messed up, that he just picked you over some 1 else. I think you shouldn't respond because he'll just take you as a rebound. No girl is worth being a rebound. You should just forget about him as another person that crossed your path of life. You don't seem too hurt so I assume it didn't get too serious. There's a lot of other guys, hopefully you'll meet someone that actually cares about you and not how far you live.
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What Girls Said 1
it's polite that he's letting you know to move on. why not tell him you have a date this weekend too? unless you want to reserve something for the future then tell him you rather see him as a potential lover than just a friend but you are realistic so you must accept his choice. is he dating or just interested? who knows, either way it's fruitless for him to wait around for you when there are no plans to be closer.0
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