I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend, people have told me that I'm pretty and that I have a nice body, but I'm pretty straight edge and have been pretty interested in school and books to ever feel attractive to guys. I'm a sophomore in college and since I commute its hard for to meet guys at school, so where do guys hang out and how would I know if he is interested in me? I don't want to put myself out there just to make a fool out of myself when he rejects me. Any tips?
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"Pretty straight edge"? What does that even mean?
Simply, there are no prowling grounds to find men. Bars are full of scumbags, the internet is sketchy, and dating services are usually useless. Your best bet is the street.
Approach people you think are attractive in public and ask them out. That's how its been done for centuries. As for not looking like a fool, you're sh*t out of luck. Part of actively pursuing the opposite sex is making yourself vulnerable. You're going to get rejected and you're going to mess up, but learning how to be confident approaching people you find attractive is an invaluable skill to have.