this guys has been going out with this girl for a bit over a year, and they broke up. my friend said that he liked me, so I decided to talk to him. when I was alone with him, he said he screwed up with his past relationship and he was obviously not over her. it didn't bother me, I kind of wanted them to back together. he also mentioned that he hates cheaters. so a few days ago after school, his was pissed off and had a bloody knuckle. i found out he was so upset because he felt like he could get a lot of girls, his ex lead him on, and cheated while they were together. when I asked what was wrong he didn't tell me, and just seemed to be focused on me, and flirting with me. its obvious I am his rebound, but should I pursue talking to him? or be friends?
Should I be the rebound?
What Guys Said 1
The drama and the idea of "saving him", of saving a vulnerable man may seem appealing, but you will just get hurt in the process. At best, you can let him know that you like him and could date, but that for that to happen, he'd have to MOVE ON, and this means: no emails, no text, no talking other than to say "I don't want to talk to you". If he can't abide by that, it's over.0
What Girls Said 1
Be his friend you know Ur the rebound which is is worse I don't deserve that0
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