And if its date do guys pay more everything.usually they do but that's because there different.
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It's stereotypical that the guy is supposed to pay for the date, but that's not always true. Very many independent women pay their own way, just to show that they are, in fact, independent. At the same token, guys can also pay for everything when just hanging out. It's just being nice.
Now, as far as whether or not it's a date, I would say it has more to do with the feelings involved and the type of thing you're doing on this "date". For example, if you both go to the bar a lot, and he asks you if you want to go to the bar for a few drinks, most likely it's just hanging out as friends, because that is a place you relate to with other friends. But even then it really depends on the type of mood the both of you set for the event.
I wouldn't be too worried about it. Just continue going out to different places, just the two of you.0