When you ask someone out, when is the most appropriate time to meet up with that person again? And how often should you go out?
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It depends on whether or not you both liked each other well enough to go out again. That's not always the case.
If you go out with someone, and you enjoyed yourself, and you think she did as well, then it's a good idea to let them know before the date is over. "I've had a great time. I hope you did too. I'd like to do it again sometime" Something basic like that. Make the offer to call her again, and arrange a second date. But when you are doing this, pay close attention to her mood in case you had misread her enjoyment level and she doesn't want a second date.
Give it about three days before you call her again. You don't want to appear clingy or needy. You want to at least give the impression that you've got other things going on in your life, and she is lucky that you want to include her in them. (There's a funny movie from a few years ago, called Swingers, which features one of the worst post-date phone calls ever... Worth checking out, so you know why the 3 day rule is there.)
Until you guys have had a few dates, and are possibly talking about seeing each other exclusively, then someone your age should take it slow. See her for one date per week, at the weekend. At least until you're both sure how you feel about each other.
The most common mistake for a guy under 18, is simply moving too fast. Play it cool.1