Ladies and gents, what do you think?
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All this ''who supposed to call, and when?'' business is really pathetic! (Sorry dude, I'm not taking a stab at you personally, I just want to get my point across). Way too many people on this website ask this type of question and can't think for themselves! They ALWAYS have to follow rules and can't think and act based on their own judgements.
Yes, it's important not to call too soon incase you come off as desperate or clingy or whatever. I completely agree with that. BUT, if the first date went well then either the guy or girl can call call/text to let the other person know they enjoyed themselves. People (mainly girls) should stop waiting around for the person to call/text first. The ball is in the girl's court as well as the guy's at this point. If you don't show interest, how is the other person supposed to know if you want to take things further or not? If a girl I went on a date with enjoyed herself I would like her to let me know this so that I could possibly ask her for another one. This is why so many dates/potential partners lose interest so easily. Lack of communication, society's rules and pride to some extent I guess!
Anyway, to some up, either a guy or girl can text/call first as long as they don't go about it in a clingy or desperate way.
Sorry again man, didn't mean to sound rude. It wasn't aimed at you personally.0