I'm trying everything that I can to find a girl for a date, even as a friend. But it's still never happening for me. Being turned down by them when I see them (can't even be friends with them either!) isn't the worst part, but not being able to find any of them is where it fails. I'm getting close to the end of my rope with it too.
I try to meet any female friends at school and ask to hang out, but that never ever seems to happen. They're always out of reach outside of school.
Even any little activity groups in which I hang out at don't have any girls around my age.
I even try asking family and friends to help find a girl for me, but still it doesn't happen.
What am I to do when girls not only play hard to get, but play out of reach?
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Honestly, after hearing enough of these stories I think some guys just have that thing that makes girls attracted to them and some guys don't. I don't mean to sound pessimistic, but if you're 21 or older and you have failed to have some kind of dating experience and you're not intentionally abstaining then something is wrong. Now, I don't know how to fix whatever is causing your particular problems but I do know it has nothing to do with "superficial" things. I have seen good looking guys with great jobs and their own place who are seemingly well adjusted people who also fail spectacularly with women. Sorry to say this, but I really don't know.1