Well I couldn't resist temptation and I texted my ex.
I stopped texting her because she wasn't sure the two of us would work, and she didn't want to take a chance on us, despite telling me she loved me. She did the breaking up 3 months ago, leaving me for another guy(one of her exes) and stupid me waited for her to break up with him and give me another go, which she didn't end up doing, she just saw me twice and said how amazing it was and how "perfect" it felt.
But I digress, I did text her and asked if she thought we were over. She said that she did, and I said goodbye. She seemed fine with it, and we exchanged a few more text messages before I finally said fairwell.
So now I am sitting here, pretty much knowing it is truly over between me and her. I am not doing the friends thing, and with her behavior as of late, she could always flip flop and come back to me. Or try too, either way I guess time will tell.
And as I sit here, I don't feel sad, or mad, or anything really. I almost feel relieved to know that I can move on without worrying about how she is feeling and if she is coming back. Well, she could try and come back, but as of right now I don't believe she will.
So how do you all feel after knowing there is no chance of getting back together?
And if you want to comment on my situation feel free.
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Never say never, I am sure her ex thought it was over for good too?
Still, maybe this girl just likes to play with guys and leave them hanging. You might not be the only one wondering.
So don't waste time and energy chasing after her. Look for someone new and if she does try to get back together, think about it carefully. That would mean she has broken up twice with the ex she is with now, once with you, and since you refer to her 'exes' in the plural, who knows how many other break-ups
Maybe.you should declare it over for good and refuse to answer her if she contacts you again!
It might save you a lot of time and heartache.energy better spent on someone a little less flighty!1