which is better?
Got a girl's number, call or text?
Calling because that way you can both can tell how the other person responds as well as how they are feeling which can lead to some sort of connection if there's good vibes going on between the two of you. Texting on the other hand gives you time to think about your response but could leave the other person confused as to why the responses are taking long and hard to tell if the other person is into you or really wants to talk. There's also the case of misspelt words which can lead to bigger confusion or how the other person wanted to use a certain word. Phone convo can be awkward especially the first time talking to someone but I'm sure if you let her do the talking and listen closely to what she's saying, you'll get to know more about her and have lots to talk about. On the phone she can go to sleep thinking about you and your voice vice versa but doesn't happen by text. You should definitely call but if you got it today, I suggest waiting for like tomorrow night or something whilst thinking of ideas of what to talk about. Good luck:)
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hi, dear friend, if you already know that gal, you can directly call her. but if you don't know her at all its could go to wrong direction altogether. if yu both are not aware yourself, try to know her, her friends. register your presence in front of her, then try gradually to talk to her, then one day you can text her, if she replies you can start calling nher. But if you both are already know each other, dnt b shy too much call her, or it will be tooo late. thre are lots of things for which you can call her.
for getting good friendship you can text her also like jokes, greetings etc.
Wow, I can't believe how many girls said text as well. Personally, I feel that calling is much more intimate and sincere. You can text as many people as you can at one time, but you can only be on the phone with one person at one time. It shows me that he's giving me all of his attention and it shows more effort and sincerity on his part. Phone calls are hard and can be awkward, but I appreciate that much more than a simple text.
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Calling is a bit more intimate, and I think it takes a tad more courage to muster up a call (since you can edit yourself with texting, but not during a phone call). It could make you stand out in a good way, if she's used to guys texting her.
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Text 1st call later. Maybe text the 1st day and call the 2nd.
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I can't believe all these girls said text. Texting is shallow and who really wants to read stupid words on a cell phone when hearing someone's voice is much more appropriate?
I really can't imagine what kind of girl would want a text message as opposed to conversation...
Facebook, texting, tweeting, and all these stupid venues really are destroying modern relationships... -
Always call, it shows you have more balls and like her enough to want to hear her voice, it's much more personal. Plus too much meaning gets lost in text, tone of voice is very important to conversation!
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if youve known her for a while , call, if you kind of just got her number on a whim, text
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I'll put it this way: what if she gave you a fake number or a friend's number? If that's the case, you'd be better off calling, just to make sure, instead of texting something embarrassing that might be sent to somebody else instead.
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call! it is more personal then a text! I like guys that call before they start texting..
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Definitely text. If she's into you she'll text back, if not, then you know and you don't have to have an awkward phone conversation.
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Text first, then call. Like if you have chemistry with her, you should call. I love when he calls =)
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call, you can hear in her voice whether she likes what she's hearing.
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Call...it shows true interest. Texting is so impersonal.
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First text, then ask her if she wants a call from you(:
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text because if you call and you don't say anything it will be awkward
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Text.. calling might be a little to much for the first time talking.
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I don't even have texting so I would have to call. LOL
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Text first since you haven't build much rapture yet, then call her about a date or two.
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Call her and hear her voice. Have courage.
Texting is lame,calling is more personal -
have your friend call and say" oops I have the wrong number" (of course from a different number) then text 10-15 minutes later hehe
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Calling her would be better, but I love getting text too
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Text for a week or so and if she's still interested, surprise her; call and ask her out to dinner or something.
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Give that bitch a smiley face, bitches love smiley faces.
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call, if you want to keep that number
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